Again Happy Sunday Everyone! I hope everyone is enjoying their weekend and is safe.
There is a conflict going on at my school right now. There is a pre-k at my school where the teacher and assistant teacher do not get along. She had a meeting with the woman but before she asked me to share some of my notes with her about communicating effectively.
Here are two different strategies that I shared with here
- Since the assistant wants to take lead then they should compromises like which areas they would like to teach. So that each other have different parts that the have to plan and teach. Compromises can be arrived through trading and one partner offers something (O’Hair, Wiemann, Mullin, & Teven, 2015).
- The 3 R’s. The 3 R’s will help build their relationship. They both need to respect each other’s wants and needs in the classroom and respond by making a compromise.
Yesterday she called me to tell me what happened. She told her that she started the meeting by saying she wants to keep a safe environment that respects both of their needs. She said the minute she said that the assistant’s mood change. It became more positive talk and that they had to a chance to work out their wants and how to make their classroom move more successfully. This course has taught me about being assertive does not meant be mean. It is showing the passion in a respectful way.
O’Hair, D., Wiemann, M., Mullin, D. I., & Teven, J. (2015). Real communication (3rd. ed). New York: Bedford/St. Martin’s.
Chapter 8, “Managing Conflict in Relationships”